There is nothing more important to you than getting back together with your ex, but after some time has passed it feels like a lost cause. Then suddenly, your ex starts to show some interest. You see some signs of flirting, she casually calls you, and she even agrees on a date. Does this mean that she wants you back, too? Now’s not the time to jump the gun, it will just push her away.
Of course, your ex flirting with you, calling you or even going out with you are surefire signs that she is interested in getting back together. BUT you have to play it cool, do not jump into rush decisions. The first thing you have to do is play hard to get, do this in moderation of course. Playing hard ball hard to get might give her the impression that you are totally not interested in her anymore. You may not even know it, but playing hard to get might be what sparked her renewed interest in you the first place, and it definitely can increase that interest more.
It is not easy to ignore the feeling of longing after the breakup. You know you miss her and you are wondering if she misses you back. The probability that she is feeling the same way is most likely greater than you think. She might not be showing it yet. Her feelings of anger towards you might be trumping the feeling of longing. The odds are, if you are wondering if your ex wants you back, your ex is at this very moment wondering about the same thing for the same reasons.
There are instances however, that an ex girlfriend will show some signs of interest without actually being interested in getting back together. She might just be craving for attention or maybe she’s just playing games to get back at you for hurting her feelings. So unless you are extremely certain that she wants you back, you should not express your plea of wanting to get her back. Hurt women can be brutal without meaning to. She might just feel like she has no other prospects at the moment and she is just using you until someone better comes along. So again, don’t jump the gun. Make sure you completely understand the situation before proposing to get back together.
These are advices and reminders that will help you decide if getting back together is the best move. Obviously, you too have been hurt in the process. If you make a mistake of getting back together for the wrong reasons and the wrong way, then it will only lead to a relationship that is doomed from the start. And this would lead to another breakup that will be more painful than before.
